It's so amazing how one person can completely change your life up .. and I'm not talking about the good way!!

The story is long and complicated but accurate and true so could people please comment on this because I want to know everyone's opinions on the matter...

There is a girl who I have known since secondary school for the sake of this blog I will call here Clare which Ironically is the name of her sister I think.

So Clare was one of my close friends best friend, Sarah. Clare and Sarah were best friends as were their boyfriends so they were together all the time, but to Clare everything came second to her boyfriend Robert. They were all best friends, a really close group for a very long time but one day Clare just decides that she no longer wants to be friends with Sarah, for no reason what so ever. She text Sarah saying that they didn't see each other enough and that she was fed up of making all the effort (which wasn't true anyway because Sarah made all the effort and Clare only ever had time for her boyfriend).

So their friendship was over and Sarah became very close friends with me and my friends, we were there for her and took her in and made her one of the group, this was not the easiest of tasks as she is very uptight compared to the laidback aura of my group of friends. But she became a close friend and we all loved her.

She was justifiably angry with Clare for the way that she had been treated. I personally had no quarrels with Clare so would be civil and converse with her, One specific time I was having a conversation with her and Sarah nearly fell out with me for it, she got really mad and accused me of choosing sides! Ridiculous as this was I personally agree that the way that Clare treated Sarah was disgraceful and disgusting so I decided to just avoid Clare to avoid being rude or polite and causing anymore conflict.

The bitchiness between those two continued until one day Clare decided that she wanted to be friends with Sarah again and apologised, shockingly after all the hate they became best friends again and me and my friends took a backseat. I most of all was very angry about this because we had been there for her and as soon as Clare said sorry it seemed that all was forgotten and me and my friends were no longer needed. We felt used!

So this has continued, them being best friends. Then one night I had a big fight with Clare because she implied that I was a shit girlfriend and that I was behaving inappropriately with another guy.. this sounds pathetic but you honestly had to be there to pick up on the malice of it all. So after that I had even more of a problem with her and Sarah, formally one of my best friends sided against me.

After that I didnt talk to Clare and then she started sleeping with my best friend, Richard. Incidently he is also one of my ex boyfriends, he works with me and knowing that I hated her he invited her to our work party, I got mad at him and I couldn't believe that she had even come knowing how much I hate her. We ended up fighting after she had the nerve to tell me that by ignoring her all night I had made it very awkward for her!!

She continued to see my best friend.

On New Years Eve Sarah said that the tension in the group that was caused between me and Clare was too much and she hated the divide so I made an effort to include Clare in my group of friends to make her feel a bit more accepted as apparently she was feeling left out, at this she decided it was appropriate to yell at me in front of a whole pub so i couldn't be bothered after that, I was finished trying with her, she also ruined Sarah's New Years because she decided to run away at midnight and go home and Sarah took it upon herself to chase after her.

They made up because Sarah's a pushover.

A week after that Clare pulled Josh, one of Richard's best friends, Josh is fairly decent although slightly immature but he asked Dan if it was ok first and Richard said it was.

Soon after this Clare apologised to me, simply so that she could try and lodge herself in the group, I accepted this apology so that the group could be a bit more united and less awkward, but I still dislike her - she is an ugly person, I don't mean in looks I mean in personality. I think she is very good at apologising which is a valuble skill but she should look at the situation and possibly behave in a way that doesn't end up warrenting an apology.

Josh and Clare were seeing each other and Clare completely led him on just to drop him and just the other night she pulled Richard again!!
Now I wont pretend to be an expert on men but surely a woman shouldn't switch between men like that and play them like that but even if they do you men shouldn't let her, you should screw each other over like that.

Josh and Richard were set to move in together before this whole incident but then Richard pulled out due to lack of funds and so Josh was already pretty angry about this but then Richard pulled the girl Josh had been seeing and now he is set to never talk to Richard again.

My whole group is pretty much messed up now, Clare seems to be using eveyone she can to try and get roots in our group but she is hurting way to many people.

Josh ---> hates Clare and Richard
Nikki (Josh's best friend, formally threated Clare saying that if she ever hurt Josh she would kill her) ---> hates Clare and Richard
Me ---> always had a lot of hate for Clare and am deffinately not Richards biggest fan at the moment, which is hard as he is my best friend
Rosie ---> hates Clare and not to fond of Richard (her opinion is void as she is a kiss ass and wont be mean to anyone)
Sarah ---> will side with Clare and Richard because she is amazingly messed up (void opinion as she is at uni)
Richard ---> Loves me but treats me horibly because I won't go out with him as I have a boyfriend and only see him as a friend, I have also seen a very ugly side to him, I don't condone his behaviour. I can't be certain if he likes Clare of just likes the attention, he is in denial about pulling her the other night and refuses to see why josh is mad at him.
Clare ---> doesn't like me one bit (she admitted to Nikki that she tried to kiss Richard in front of me to make me jealous, so she is obviously willing to use people) she likes Sarah but i think thats about it, she tries to get on with everyone but as I have explained she has burnt a lot of bridges.

I have probably left out a lot of stuff but it's hard to catch people up when the events are stretched over 2 months.

I should also mention that me and Josh had a bit of a thing so it also looks as if she only goes for guys which I have been with, pathetic!!

Comment this please because I want to hear any opinions - also I promise this isn't bias, it's actually what happened.

Thanks for reading x x x